Networking was the single activity outside of marketing that blew doors open, brought us new clients, and increased our influence as well as our bottom line. We went to all kinds of networking events and we learned that none are better than others. All work, it is just that some work differently from others. In meetings where only four people showed up we wrote two major sales. At beer and wings events we met many people and they were added to our vortex immediately by connecting with them on LinkedIn. We began to love weekly referral meetings and learned to engage the whole group to become our own sales force. It was enjoyable and it was fruitful. It was a powerful tool when we met people online and then met them at a networking meeting and then again at a coffee shop.
Relationships are the main factor in networking. Some people
get excited that they know someone famous online, but the real value comes with
those we meet and really network with. An online relationship only goes so far.
Some people put great value on their distance communication list and there is
some merit in it, but don’t let the fact that Arnold Schwarzenegger talks to
you on LinkedIn deceive you into thinking you are somebody big locally. That is
not the only basket you need eggs in. Who you know right here, right now, and
how they feel about you is more important if you are a local business person.
Make friends. Play nice in the sandbox. Lean the rules of
engagement because there are rules of engagement whether you realize it or not.
If you want to succeed fast you need to know how to play the game. Giving is
best. When in doubt give some more. Give time. Give value. Give referrals. Give
yourself. Buy drinks. Hand out gifts. Shake hands. Look people in the eye.
Smile. Give some more. This is how one builds relationships that matter.
You will make mistakes. You will inadvertently insult
someone. Go apologize. Give that too. These are all lessons of networking and
building relationships. You are a real networker when you have 200 people or
more that you could call on the phone and say “Hey, I’m having a party” and
they don’t ask “Who is this?” They just ask what they can bring. People want to
be around a networker. They like others who invest in relationships.
Real networkers don’t just invite people to come to their
deal. They can be successful inviting because they were already out attending.
They went to the events, the private parties, the coffee meetings, the birthday
gatherings, the Stampede Pancake Breakfast and the celebrations. They are
widely connected because they left their office. There is a lot of work that
goes in behind the scenes for next overnight sensation.
We made networking a lifestyle and it has significantly
increased our bottom line. Bob Francis, Zechariah James and myself go to our
own events, to others events, and we take in personal events. We plan them into
our schedules, we coordinate with each other where we are going and who will
cover which event. As a result we are writing larger business deals every
month. We are becoming connectors who connect others to the people and things
they need and we are teaching those valuable networking skills to our members at the CIBN as well.
Networking will help you to succeed faster and it brings you new business!